Eric Berne · Transactional Analysis · Digital

Games People Play
in the Social Media Age

The classic psychological games by Eric Berne — and how the same patterns live on today in social media algorithms, influencer dynamics, and viral formats.

7 Categories · 33 Games · Classic / Comparison / Social Media Analysis

What are Berne's Games?

Eric Berne described in "Games People Play" (1964) recurring, unconscious interaction patterns that people play to obtain psychological payoffs — confirmation, blame-shifting, experience substitutes. Each game has a hidden agenda, defined roles, and a predictable outcome.

Why Social Media?

Algorithms reward emotional reactions: outrage, pity, feelings of superiority, being desired. The digital stage amplifies Berne's games to millions — what was once played behind closed doors now goes viral. The pattern remains the same; only the scale explodes.

The mind map links to all game cards, grouped by Life Games, Marital Games, Party Games, Sexual Games, Underworld Games, Consulting Room Games, and Good Games. The complete text structure follows in the categories below the graphic.

Games People Play — Mind Map by Eric Berne "Alcoholic", game card Self-castigation, payoff for Alcoholic "Debtor", game card "Try and Collect", variant of Debtor "Kick Me" "Now I've Got You, You Son of a Bitch" "See What You Made Me Do" "Corner" "Courtroom" "Frigid Woman" "Harried" "If It Weren't for You" "Look How Hard I've Tried" "Sweetheart" "Ain't It Awful" "Blemish" "Schlemiel" "Why Don't You — Yes But" "Busman's Holiday" "Cavalier" "Happy to Help" "Homely Sage" "They'll Be Glad They Knew Me" "Let's You and Him Fight" "Perversion" "Rapo" "The Stocking Game" "Uproar" "Cops and Robbers" "How Do You Get Out of Here" "Let's Pull a Fast One on Joey" "Greenhouse" "I'm Only Trying to Help You" "Indigence" "Peasant" "Psychiatry" "Stupid" "Wooden Leg"
Original classification by Eric Berne · Click a name to open the card